I’m not sure if Signal copies stories to each user’s device, so I don’t send videos to everyone, just in case it does. It’s kind of rude to send a 7MB file to someone, without their permission.
OK, I made a decision to not accept people, because some members were pissed off that i was running an open unvetted chat on Signal. They said it violated the overall branding of Signal.
One person wanted to have it be a kind of sexism-is-ok space, and another wanted it to be polite.
I was thinking “public and dirty”, which would have pissed people off even more. So, DM me if you want in, but the group is pretty moribund right now, with not much interaction.